Is It Baby Time For The Samurai?
One of the pillars of this site regardless of the business it fosters is that it is still a platform for me to share my thoughts and views on life. People ask why I go so hard at what I do and I often say that for me I have no other option. My parents still work full-time jobs and I have no kids. This plays into 2 of my 3 main life goals. The first is to put myself in a position to live a life on my own professional terms. In turn this will lead to goal #2, me providing my parents the life I want them to have…the life they deserve for raising my brother and me right. The final goal is to be in a position to bring a child into this world who will at the very least have the quality of life growing up that I had. And to be fully completely honest, in a perfect world I’d have a child by now and hopefully it won’t be too long before that happens.
Understand that I’m not in a rush to start a family. I don’t have any internal clocks ticking and if I just wanted to pop kids out just for the sake of it I could. I’m single and perfectly fine with that. I see that life is directing me in a path different then where I thought I’d be at 32 approaching 33. Fortunately I still feel like I’m in my 20’s. Never the less I see the bigger picture of life and it most definitely includes kids. People that know me, over the years, have asked me if I have an issue with kids. It’s not that I have an issue with kids but I had an issue with seeing kids born into struggle that they didn’t ask for. I have an issue with kids born to losers that are male by physical make up but clearly are not men. I can’t allow myself to do that. It would be a personal failure.
I wont get off track onto that topic but after a few conversations I felt the need to just express that. You blink an eye and years have flown by. I remember when my cousin Yasmine was born and was just a baby now she’s 1 year away from college and one of the best volley ball players on the East Coast might I add. Now I see my cousin raising her son and her request that I be god father of baby Jordan is something I take very serious.
Everything happens in its proper time but yes I do look forward to the day I have a little jr samurai or lady ninja is crawling around. All I do is for my family present and future….